.However what Astrid does not understand however is actually a reality that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- that has 2 children-- can easily verify: The simple fact that your connection with your parents adjustments as well as advances as you each grow older, as well as perhaps right. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they are actually babies [and] it's a great deal work yet charming," O'Hara mentions. "Later, you really miss out on that, since then you can not acquire all of them to accomplish everything you desire all of them to carry out, considering that they start creating their own thoughts, their own opinions." And inevitably, you find yourself in the spot O'Hara, whose children remain in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself right now, able to gain from her little ones. "They are actually simply such cool young fellas," she points out. "I'm certainly not their pal, yet I really love possessing discussions with them and learning more about exactly how they consider lifestyle.".